Was it common for a man to punish a woman with a spanking in Asia a long time ago? I read a book called Tai-Pan about the building of Hong Kong in the 1800s. A man spanked his wife with bamboo as a punishment. |
| In the 19th century it was pretty common in most societies, not just in Asia. And in some places, of course, it still is. |
Why is Seeing a Woman Spanking a Man More Ridiculous than a Man Spanking a Woman? I don't want to go into the details about what led me to ask this but do you think that it's more ridiculous to see a grown woman spanking a grown man, than it is to see a grown man spanking a grown woman? I think so and I am a woman! The thought of seeing a woman trying to put a man over her knee and spank him just makes me laugh and just doesn't look normal. But I can picture a man putting a woman over his knee and spanking her, it seems more natural. Men are bigger and stronger and instinctively more dominant. Even when you look at old movies, it's always the guy putting the girl over his lap and spanking her, you never see it the other way around, I think there's a reason for that. Now I'm not supporting domestic abuse at all, besides spanking IS NOT abuse, but let's just say my husband has had to put me over his knee once or twice for a "talk" about my attitude, but I couldn't and wouldn't imagine me taking him and putting him on my lap and spanking him, it's too weird and kinda grosses me out, it would just emasculate him. And I at least felt more feminine when I was over his knee. Any way what do you think, just picture it. And I'm not talking about "sexual" spankings either, real ones for punishment. What's more ridicules to you? |
| A woman spanking a man is more ridiculous. My ex and I had a spanking relationship, and I would never agree with me being the one spanking him. I am old fashioned, and believe in gender roles. Men are supposed to be head of the household. The men spank the women. End of story. |
Is it OK that I want to be spanked by a woman and man like parental spanking non sexual? I like to be spanked by women.
But I have a parental discipline fantasy's I would like woman/mom and man/dad to spank me like I was there bad boy. are there any couples into this? |
| It is perfectly alright if it's what you want, and yes there are couples who do this. A good friend of mine went through four years of college and two more years of grad school after taking a year off, renting a room from a middle-aged couple. They started spanking him shortly after he moved in and continued all the way through. In addition to that, during Christmas break of his freshman year his parents started spanking him again after not spanking since he had turned 13, and they continued until he got married in his early 30's. |
Would it bother you to role play when spanking your man? My wife has cooperated with my fetish by providing occasional spankings over her knee. What I really would like is for her to play along more by treating me like a naughty guy - scoldings and a little harder smacks. I want to feel like she is disciplining me. How would you react to this request. The rest of our relationship, in and out of the bedroom, isn't like this at all. |
There are definitely some women out there would would enjoy giving you your fantasies, though I have no way of knowing if your wife is one of them. I would recommend testing the waters before diving too deep with her. You might reach a point at which she decides that your fantasy goes beyond what she finds to be acceptable, and that it will be the start of the end. Try exposing her to some scenes that are more reminiscent of what you want, like spanking videos, or the occasional spanking in mainstream media (don't know how many there are of men being spanked by women, though).
I'm on the opposite side of the spectrum, living with a woman that I love to put over my knee for a good spanking from time to time. Unlike yours, though, it extends past the bedroom, and is a strong part of our relationship. |
5 midgets, spanking a man covered in thousand island dressing, is that love? Please tell me I have no idea. |
| I dunno why else anyone would do it. |
Does any man like spanking during sex? Can you please explain why you like it. I had sex with the guy. We are going out, it was our first time and he shocked me a little bit. It was aggressive also and very intense. Any ideas? |
| Yes it feels good lightly done ! Kind of somehwat heat pain turn on but not get it to hard or rough ! Makes my penis harder! |
Are there any women out there that like giving their man a spanking? This is a follow up to my earlier spanking games question. Nearly every lady that responded to that one said they like being on the receiving end. Are there any who enjoy adminstering a sound bare bottomed spanking to their significant other? Why do you like giving better than receiving? Is it a turn-on for you to have someone willingly offer their bottom up to you?
Just wondering if it's as good for her to give as it is for me to receive. Thanks for your input |
It's easier to find girls who like to be spanked than those who like to spank, though quite a few switch - ie. swing both ways. But check out some of the better spanking sites - you'll most likely find a nice girl who'll be happy to redden your bottom for you.
As for 'whether it's as good for her' - well, speaking as a guy who just loves to spank, I'd say it almost certainly is! |