Masturbation = Pre-mature ejaculation? + what can I do to correct pejac? I've had some problems with premature ejaculation. I have dealt with this since I first started having sex, but want to correct it. Long distance relationship so masterbating, but obviously would really like to correct this. Any suggestions, advice, etc? |
| Men and women may masturbate until they are close to orgasm, stop for a while to reduce excitement, and then resume masturbating. They may repeat this cycle multiple times. This “stop and go” build-up can achieve even stronger orgasms. |
Can someone get an STD from masturbation? Mature answers only please!? Hypothetical situation:
There is a teenage boy who has never had sex/even kissed a girl before, All he does is masturbate. However, he ejaculates into his underwear and sometimes on his bedspread. Could he get and STD from this? |
| Nope. He'd only be in contact with his own bodily fluids, and you can't get an STD from yourself... It's like saying that when you have a cold you can't drink from your own cup more than once because you'll catch your own cold! |
A masturbation question for all mature women? 1. If I use a shower head to masturbate,will it do damage to the outside of my body from the pressure of water
2.Sometimes I feel like when I'm about to orgasm I have to stop,so I've never achieved one. Is it something worth doing? |
1. I don't think so.
2. So. Worth. It. :3 |
What's the best method of female masturbation? Mature answers only!? This question has been asked SO many times, I know, but I can't find any ones that are taken seriously. If you have a technique thta helps you reach orgasm every time, please tell me! |
| I used to be able to use just my hand, fingers in vagina and palm rubbing clit. Now I use a viborator it has a shaft and another part that stimulates the clit. I can have an orgasm with just clitoral stimulation but cant have one with just vaginal stimulation |
Question for mature women. Does your orgasm feel better through masturbation or through intercourse.? I've heard that orgasm through intercourse is more fulfilling but would like to hear from you to confirm. If you have suggestions on how your man can make it better through intercourse feel free to give details. |
Definitely through intercourse, by far. I can have an orgasm more quickly through masturbation, usually, but it isn't as satisfying.
Many women can only have orgasms with clitoral stimulation, so using positions that provide plenty of clitoral stimulation is best. Pulling far back and thrusting straight in is the least satisfying sex, in my opinion. It provides virtually no stimulation to the clitoris. I like the vaginal stimulation, too, but I need both to really enjoy myself.
You should look online to see where the clitoris is. It has the "tip" that everyone knows about, but it also splits off and runs down through each labia to the vagina. Putting pressure against the clitoris through the labia feels great when a woman is aroused. The clitoris swells and becomes firmer and more sensitive, similar to an erection. Some women find direct contact with the clitoris to be overstimulating. It can be far too sensitive. I am one of these women. I much prefer pressure through the labia or clitoral hood. Direct pressure causes discomfort and a stinging sensation. This will vary among women, though, so it wouldn't hurt to ask.
I find that I get bored with positions, speed, and rhythm fairly quickly and start to lose sensation. I prefer changing things up every couple of minutes. Especially the rhythm.
When I get close to orgasm, I sometimes like to slow down, but usually like to speed it up. As long as it's still deep so that I get my clitoral stimulation. I usually don't like long strokes (pulling it all the way out and in) at this point. I like to stay close. Rocking hips forward and back is nice.
Even if I'm not close to orgasm, I usually get there quickly when my man orgasms. That is the best, most intense part of sex for me. Sometimes I don't even care to orgasm and feel satisfied to please him.
The only time I like really fast sex is when I'm about to orgasm. The friction makes me lose a lot of sensation and I need more direct pressure.
These are just my experiences. What you need to do will depend on who you're with, so make sure you communicate with your partner. Pay attention to her responses during sex. You should be able to see the difference in her when you're doing something right. |
Mature Masturbation Question? Why is it that I dont like masturbating to girls I really like? |
Shan, good question. You're not gay. You're mature in beginning to understand the difference between love and lust. Love is on the same continuum of respect (and oddly enough, fear.) When you love someone, feeling of lust are not ignited as easily, instead you have feelings of protection, of owning/belonging, and of sharing intimacy.
Feelings of lust are selfish. Most guys who abuse themselves to feelings of lust are feelings no respect (or love) for these women. That's one of the reasons that love is so confusing to guys. Intimacy is a part of love that comes after love has been established to the point of "belonging" to one another. There is no feeling more complete of belonging to each other than to commit to a life together and start a family.
I have more to say about this. If you want to know, ask. |
Mature: Female Masturbation? Losing Sex Drive? Help please!? I have a couple things...
1. So, I have tried masturbation. And I liked it the first few times, but it's starting to not feel like anything. I don't know where I could buy a dildo or anything other than my fingers to use that won't hurt me. Should I save up the money and grow the balls to buy a dildo? Or is there a cheaper item I could use instead? I have no idea on anything about dildos in the first place.
2. I feel like nothing is really turning me on anymore. I am a virgin and I have read a lot of very "smutty" or dirty love stories. I'm too much of a chicken to look up porn because I'm age. Also, I'm a lesbian. So everything I read is either just plain gross or not able to turn me on anymore. I also haven't been able to think of a "sexy" daydream in awhile either, like I used to be able to.
Please, I'd prefer mature responses. These are just a couple questions I have that I'm too afraid to ask my mother; I'm afraid she wouldn't understand about the masturbation and she doesn't know that I'm a lesbian either, so she's not very much help. And it's a bit too much of an embarrassing thing to talk to my friends about... |
Most women seem to get their dildos from someone else (a friend, a boyfriend, a girlfriend). I'm not sure how you would buy yourself a dildo seeing as you're age. My only thought is that trojan vibratory. Since it's in a condom package you may be able to buy that. It's not a dildo, but a lot of women enjoy vibration more than just something to stick inside them. Some people might suggest using things around the house, but that can be dangerous. Food can cause infections and you don't want anything to get stuck in or lost in there.
You could try doing different things if you haven't already. You could buy some KY jelly although spit tends to be the best lubricant. They have the new KY sensations which is supposed to help with climax. You may have already done this, but it may be worth it to take some time and really play around with and get to know your body. Get to know what parts of your body give you excitement and what types of stimulation to those parts excite you the most. The more relaxed and willing you are to explore the more you will learn about yourself. It's possible to build up a tollerance to porn. It may be worth taking a break from porn and coming back to it at another time. Hope that's helpful |
What is it about masturbation.Please be mature? Have you ever wonder what is about masturbation that although it is practice with clothes on, what makes it so arousing when you are masturbating fully naked? Why...
Please contribute maturely |
| I find it more arousing when i'm half clothed |
Will excessive masturbation cause erectile dysfunction or pre mature ejaculation during real sex ? during ejaculation penis tends to lose hardness - is it common? |
Masturbation helps prevent premature ejaculation, if you want it too. Just use masturbation and practice delaying your orgasm while you are still masturbating.
Masturbation is like starting the engine of a car that otherwise sits idle to keep it in running condition. Being able to masturbate is a self check up to be sure you are still physically capable of having sex. |